Is Love a Decision or an Emotion ???

Emotion
Love is an emotion. It is an uncontrollable emotion. So many times
you fall in love with a person knowing that maybe they aren't the one for you
but yet you still can't run from the feeling in your heart. If love was a
decision, then you would be free to walk away... but since it's an emotion,
you just can't walk away from your heart that easily.


You can't pick and choose who you fall in love with, no matter what
people think. You may try hard not to fall in love with someone, for
whatever reason, but if that person is emotionally/physically attractive
to you...there's nothing you can do. Fate takes over. But it is also
a special something that connects two people in a unique way.



It may require decisions along the way, but it's something that
comes from the bottom of your heart and you can't change it for the world.
And when you're in love, there's not a thing you can do to stop it. You can never decide to fall out of love, even when you want to, or think you want to !!!



If you really love someone and that person breaks off the relationship,
you will have a difficult time dealing with it. Your mind won't be
able to get over the emotion. You might say that you no longer love that
person but your heart will go on loving that person just the same. You may
not be able to ever go back to the relationship with the one who hurt you, but
there will always be fond memories of the one you loved.



To love someone because of money,
or physical attraction is not true love. True love can ride out
the storms of life and is willing to make sacrifices.




Decision
To love is to accept, to understand, to maturely will to be
together unconditionally/to share... Infatuation, romance, sexual highs,
crushes, good impressions, and the like are the emotions that humans
confuse with love!



Love, true love, is essentially a decision. It is a commitment to
another that must be mentally made. However, love also causes emotions
that can make your heart, mind, body & soul soar above the clouds. Love
can be emotion but is empty without the commitment.




The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid
and deeds left undone.
Dun regret only when you lose what you treasure.......





Happy Valentine's Day !!!!!!